Category Archives: Personal Life

Busted video card

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On top of the busy work week, my troubles were compounded when the graphics card on my main gaming computer died on me. The symptoms actually started on Saturday when I was playing Street Fighter 4 (which I had just bought on the Impulse platform). All of a sudden, the display just shut down and the computer locked up. I had to do a hard reset but everything seemed normal after that. The next day the computer locked up again with just the browser open. After some experimentation, I found that trying to do anything 3D related would first cause odd artifacts to accumulate on the screen and then lock the computer up.

Since reseating the card and blowing off the surface dust didn’t help, it was time to shop for a new card. My original card was a 8800 GT that came with the Dell XPS 420. While it’s showing its age a bit, I’ve actually been quite pleased with it especially since I rarely play the latest and hottest games these days. I am however annoyed that the card died just two months after the warranty expired. This is actually the second time something from Dell died on me soon after its warranty expired. If I ever buy anything from them again, I’m going to make sure I buy an extended warranty as well.

Buying a new card would be a straightforward matter in Kuala Lumpur, but a hassle here in Kota Kinabalu. Pretty much the best card I could find was a 9800 GTX, which is just a renamed version of my existing card. I could ask a shop to order it for us but the prices seemed expensive and it would take a significant amount of time. Worse of all, I needed to find an upgrade that would fit in my existing case and work with its power supply unit. As geeky as I am, I have very little experience with computer hardware so buying one without being to test it with my rig first was a real problem.

I turned to LYN for help and after getting some advice from there, opted to buy a Palit GTX 260 Sonic from one of the vendors there. The whole thing went more smoothly and quickly than I expected. It also cost significantly less than if I were to buy it from a retailer in KL. The card arrived only one day after I made payment. I had some worries about it being able to fit, but after some nudging and jiggling, it went in and everything seems to be working perfectly at the moment. So the lessons I learned from this experience are:

  1. Buying from LYN really does work and is both convenient and cheap to boot.
  2. A GTX 260 does fit in a Dell XPS 420 but only just.
  3. I shouldn’t play graphics intensive games in a hot room with the air-conditioner off.

Mountain climbing

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As a self-confessed geek, I’m not much of an outdoors or exercise person. I do take short walks around the neighborhood with my wife everyday so that Spidey can exercise and staying in general good shape is never a bad thing, but that’s as much exercise as I’m willing to put time and effort towards. Recently, however, we’ve been kicking around the idea of actually attempting to climb Mount Kinabalu, which as all Malaysians know is the tallest peak in Southeast Asia. We don’t have a set date yet, but it looks like it’s going to be a family affair with lots of people and generally planned for early next year.

I have no illusions about it being easy. Sure, it’s not mountaineering with rope and pitons, but even fit and sportive people generally claim that getting to the peak is an exhausting and arduous ordeal. This means we’re going to have to put in some regular training and that in turn means going to the Bukit Padang recreational area to climb the hills there. It doesn’t take a lot of time, but even less than 20 minutes of effort is pretty hard on you given how steep it is and how many steps you need to climb.

We originally planned on going twice a week, once on Sunday and again on Wednesday, but we’ve found that the traffic in Kota Kinabalu gets too bad around rush hours to make that feasible. So we’ve decided to go only on Sundays for leg muscle training and jog around in our neighborhood as endurance training. We still have quite some time to prepare so I’m not unduly worried, but given how punishing even 20 minutes at Bukit Padang can be, I have a newfound respect for the people who manage to complete the two-day climb up to th peak of Mount Kinabalu!

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Arkham Horror is here

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I thought it might be fun to take some photos of my opening the Arkham Horror box that we’ve just bought. Of course, since I just sat on the floor to open it, Spidey wandered over to curiously poke her nose in everything, which just makes it more fun. As you can see, the board is pretty big, certainly bigger than I expected it to me. There are also a lot of cards (nearly 400) and lots of tiny cardboard tokens and markers. We’re going to have to get a bigger table than we planned to to play this. I can’t even imagine what it’s like once you start adding the expansions with boards of their own.

We’re probably not going to actually start playing it anytime soon either. I’d like to get the cards into some protective plastic sleeves first because my hands tend to get sweaty, and we have to think about a way to store all those markers and tokens once we’ve punched them out of the cardboard sheets. We’re going to have to find a way to roll dice fairly without having them go all over the place too. We had a shot of making a dice tower of our own, but it ended rather badly. Unsurprisingly, cellophane tape isn’t sufficient to hold together a robust cardboard dice tower.

Incidentally we did manage to play a game of Battlestar Galactica at CarcaSean even if it started later than we planned and kept us out until much later than we usually like to stay. We were worried about Spidey being left alone in the room for too long. I wrote a simple after action report of our experence on QT3 that you can read here. Spoiler: my wife is a Cylon!

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Married without children

This post was prompted by a recent thread on QT3 which quickly spiralled into a decidedly heated discussion about the sometimes condescending attitude that some have towards others, especially married couples, who choose not to have children. Someone also linked to an excerpt of a pretty interesting article on the subject which seems to have attracted a great deal of comments. My wife and I have been married for three years now and we happen to be one of those couples who have decided not to have any children ever.

Personally, I can’t say that we’ve gotten the level of grief that some similar couples on QT3 seem to have had over this decision, but I can certainly say people often seem befuddled when we tell them about our decision. At the very least, this tends to open a gap between ourselves and friends of our age who have gone on to found families of their own with children. As I posted on QT3, children are the main topics of conversation in many social circles and not having children of our own means other people have a hard time relating to us and inevitably leads these friends to drift away.

I don’t care to go into the details of our personal reasons for not wanting to have children. But I do want to point out that I feel that this is a very personal issue over which no one has the right to judge anyone else over. While few people would go to the extreme of accusing childless couples of shirking from their responsibility of replenishing the human race (though some do, even on QT3), many more seem to insinuate that not having children automatically means leading less fulfilling, less worthy lives and that is something to be pitied.

I don’t really have the energy to reiterate through the myriad arguments of why not having a child can be a good thing (you can read through that QT3 thread and the comments on the above-mentioned article for that), other than to note that it’s probably the single most environmentally friendly decision a person can make if you’re one of those green types (which I’m not). I do want to note that ultimately, from a moral dimension, none of that should matter. Having a child is a personal and private decision that should have no bearing on whether or not you’re a good or a bad person. Unfortunately, many people don’t seem to agree with me.

I have 42 million Ringgit

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Or so Public Mutual tells me anyway. I received my Quarter Account Statement for the period ending 30th June 2009 on Saturday as you can see from the picture above (edited slightly to remove some personal information). Most of the report looks okay (actually more than okay due to the gains the markets have made in the last quarter). Then my eye wanders down to the Asset Allocation area of the statement and my eyes pop out.

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Yep, it claims that I have a whopping RM42,385,804.10 in fixed income funds with Public Mutual. Naturally, as much as my wife would prefer otherwise, it’s a mistake as I’m worth nowhere near as much. After asking around on LYN, it seems this is a common error in this quarter’s statement. Everyone seems to have an incorrect entry in the Fixed Income portion but the actual amount varies from person to person. It does make me a bit uneasy that my mutual fund company would be making mistakes like this.

Incidentally, my blog hosting company Bluehost.com had some connection problems for the past two days, which explains why this post is late. Very annoying.

More on boardgames

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Since my last post on the subject, I’ve been to CarcaSean a couple more times now, including a special Sunday session with a bunch of members. In all, my wife have tried the following games: Carcassonne, Carcassonne: Hunters & Gatherers, Settlers of Catan, Power Grid and Ticket to Ride. These aren’t exactly the Big Box games I’ve always wondered about but they’re not a bad start.

My wife’s favourite so far is Power Grid which is the most complex of these games by far. I don’t like it very much as I found it to be basically an extended exercise in arithmetic and it has too many maintenance aspects that you can easily forget to do or do wrongly (refilling resources, discarding power plant cards etc.) Judging from the game’s FAQ on BoardGameGeek, it seems we got a fair amount of stuff wrong too, but doesn’t improve my impression of it about being too fiddly and full of special, conditional exceptions in its rules. My own favourite at this point is Settlers of Catan. It’s stream-lined and elegant but still leaves plenty of room for strategy.

On a vaguely related note, the topic of wargames and their history popped up the other day on QT3 and the name of the father of wargames was someone that I knew, but completely didn’t expect. If we discount purely abstract games like go and chess, it seems that the inventor of what we can recognizably call wargames today is none other than H.G. Wells, he of The Time Machine and The War of the Worlds fame.

In 1913 Wells wrote a book he called by its full title Little Wars: a game for boys from twelve years of age to one hundred and fifty and for that more intelligent sort of girl who likes boys’ games and books in which he describes a complete set of rules for making a game out of toy soldiers. The book is now out of copyright so it is available for reading online here. It’s a rather simple game by modern standards and doesn’t even involve dice or anything similar to simulate chance. Rather when two units meet each other on the field, they’re presumed to be equally skilled and therefore eliminate one another. The really cute part is that artillery pieces on the battlefield are represented by little spring-loaded toy cannons that actually fire a dart-like projectile. Thus any toy soldiers that are knocked down by the projectile is assumed to have been killed by artillery fire.

Of course everything that Wells used was basically hand-crafted and would be impossibly expensive in our time. Even the landscaping elements he used to create his battlefields looked amazingly nice as the many photos included in the book show. Nowadays, most of us have to make do with cheap plastic and cardboard.

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Getting into boardgames

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I’ve been thinking about getting into boardgames for a while now but I’ve only recently started it doing it for real. I don’t really have much experience in this hobby. I was a fairly avid player of Magic: The Gathering and other assorted CCGs back in the day, but the only boardgaming I ever did was a few very memorable games of Space Hulk at the short-lived Temple du Jeu in Tours where I studied. Still, I’ve always kept half an eye on the field and felt a strange lust for those giant boxes filled with all manner of figures and dice.

It turns out that there’s a boardgaming cafe at City Mall here in Kota Kinabalu, which you can play the titles in their very extensive library for a modest table and food / drinks for each player, so my wife and I decided to give it a try. We played a game of Carcassonne with just the two of us a couple of weeks ago and on Saturday roped in my wife’s oldest brother to join us. We ended up staying a bit longer than expected and played a game of Carcassonne and a game of Settlers of Catan. We probably won’t be going every single week but I have a feeling that this is going to a regular source of entertainment for the both of us.

Right now, I’m thinking of buying a copy of Carcassonne: Hunters & Gatherers because it’s a great, easy-to-learn game to take out when we have family and friends visiting. I’m also thinking of ordering a copy of Arkham Horror, a highly regarded cooperative game that the cafe, CarcaSean, doesn’t seem to have in its library. According to what I’ve read it’s perfectly playable for two but would be better for more people. I’ve also been trying to connect with other boardgamers in town so that I can finally get into one of those epic games like Starcraft, Battlestar Galactica or Twilight Imperium. So if any friends want to give this hobby a try and are reading this, do let me know. We could always use more players!

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